Meet Your Mistress

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Step into my world of 'BDSM', Bondage Discipline (or Dominance) Sadism Masochism, through my hands and voice.  A Fetish, where your Obedience & Pain is my Pleasure. My pleasure will unfold at the sign of weakness. From the time you kneel in front of me, as you are under my spell. My path into the lifestyle, started in 2010, when I was a Massage Therapist. Just as you saw in the movie "The Client List".
 
Emotional and mental health and being responsible are in direct conflict with the stereotypes that many people rely on for their entire fantasies. A good Dominatrix is one who has trained and mastered the art of creating the illusion of toxicity for those subs who need it, switching it on and turning it off at just the right time, and 
administering the appropriate aftercare to make sure you don't cross the line between abuse and roleplay.

 

The Dominatrix's goal even goes further: to help the submissive reach a height of intense subspace that sits right on the edge of that line. When you succeed in hitting that high, that line is able to move and expand outward. As you negotiate, you have to give the submissive more space to give input on whether he/she will need to go further to stay in that intense space. 

 

I thrive to provide my best self to each of my subordinates.  My approach is to cater to each individual and find out what drives them nuts and use that to my advantage.  Vetting is required before I will session with you.  I thrive on customizing a visit, individually upon wants and needs. It's not just about their safety, but also about the thrilling illusion of danger in some cases. There are a lot of factors involved. A constant change can be expected. 

 

You need to have a lot of self-control if you don't want them to be exhausted by hitting high subspace to the point they have to space play out too far. You have to also decide whether communication between appointments is appropriate, how much is or isn't appropriate, and how to keep that connection if you don't really want to talk too much between sessions if you don't like to.

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As a submissive... do your homework and know your Mistress. This could potentially be dangerous, depending on the type of scene you plan to do. Make sure the Mistress you have chosen, has had training; part of a group or a community within the lifestyle. Always, always make sure you discuss a safe word and what that means, if you are new and learning.